Ok, I'm taking these pics down, not becasue she treatened me but because she didn't consent to have these on the net in the first place and therefore its not fair for me to use them like that. I do want to be fair so yeah.
And somehow Mommy must be happy, here is sister Shelby out making funny pictures in front of the courthouse that is about to send her son back to jail. At least Shelby understands that the Dauben faimly is just one big joke, so act accordingly.
He warned that he was going to be a little sleepy as he doesn't fucntion well this early in the morning. Someone needs to wake him up and tell him what they did.
keep talking and posting about me my kids your previous post and all. I am contacting cyber crime ppl and i will get a restraining order if you all do not take my name off your stupid fake made up lie web sites. I am talking to a investigator right now. I will get a seize order as well.
I'm not posting about your kids. And I"m only posting about you from what you posted or stated publicly. If you would quit sticking your foot in your mouth about this in a public forum I would "prolly" leave you out of it, Daddy too.
Oh noooo Shelby allowed her pics to be put up on the internet via Brannon and a twitter feed but how dare Ginger copy n paste. Yes, someone call da POLE-eece quick. A serious crime has been committed online. Its an awful thing to have someone post comments about you when you don't want them too.
ooooh wait, hypocrite Daubens again. They can dish it out but well..... gee. I'm sure the police have nothing better to do right now Shelby. Go cry to mama will ya? LOL seriously, LOOK at what your freak-show brother has done to others online for years and you think you have some right to contact authorities? Because of permssion you already gave for these pics to be public? NO crime has been committed and NO ONE on here is chatting about your babies.
And in relation to the post about your kids, that came because someone posted on here claiming that Joey violated his bond by seeing his nieces and nephews and that I should run with that story. Joey and Brandy identified that person as Curtis, but whoever it was I posted that I disagree with that ruling and I have no problem with Joey seeing his nieces and nephews and would support him if he did. So that post wasn't about your kids it was about the possibility of Joey violating his bond, and for that matter I took up for Joey on that one.
I never even said he did, I just said that if he did I really dont have a problem with it. That was a BS technicality to his bond restrictions. There is certianly zero evidence that Joey would be any kind of a threat to them in any way, even if he if he is guilty of the navarro charges.
Shelby you really should not have posted your email publicly. Careful Ginger, if she does get some harassing emails, she'll try to pin it on you. I've seen her go off like a rabid dog at some others a few months back.
Shelby, its simple. Joey has hurt a lot of people. Your family seems to think that's just fine because its "Joey". Its not ok. You and daddy and mommy yapping online is what I call fair game. If you're going to talk, I will be posting whatever IS public domain. If you want to go behind closed doors then shut down your facebook accounts really tight and stop discussing things in open forums. When you do, you lose all rights to privacy and nothing is illegal. Its opinions. Stop talking and no one will be bringing attention on you. Get it?
This is actually just what Presley was doing as well, they post all kinds of things on the internet including pics but when someone copies and paste their own words they go crazy and scream at me to take them down. Actually, poor Shelby was just having to fill in for Presley as she was MIA on Joey's big day.
Don't know how I missed all this Shelby fun. Bossy little fart, ain't she. She used her mamma voice on you, Gingersnap. E-mail me right now! Take those posts down right now! Quit laughing at me right now!
I hope you didn't email her. Maybe she'll come back and promise to spank you...........
Do you suppose she talks to her kids that way? "AS A GOOD MOTHER WOULDNT EVEN CROSS THAT BAIL RESTRICTION". How does "CROSS(ing) THAT BAIL RESTRICTION" relate to being a good mother? It's like she's mixing metaphors. Was she protecting the kids or Joey?
In all fairness Ginger you did have a right to copy and paste. But on the flip side going after Joey's sister was not cool. Yes I have had my isseus with Joey but I have never attacked Shelby. Have I warned her about Joey seeing her kids even before he was released? YES. Did my roommate pick up on that and then post on your blog? Yes. Was it me trying to get Joey thrown back in jail? NO! The only reason I post on their (Editors) blog is because I want the world to see what Joey has become since his time in lockup. Yes the (Editor) is still my roommate and will be for years to come. I served with them and enjoyed my time aboard the "Ike". CVN-69 was home. Now Dallas County Mo. is home. Yes I drive 80% of my time but I do get to post from time to time on the road. Mostly I wait for down time before I post anything. I will say Shelby is having issues and blaiming you for others comments she does not like. I know she would like the attacks on Joey to stop but she does not and can not see the lies he has told since departing the Ellis County Press. I will say this might be some BS lie against Joey (the Navarro County charges).Is it is not our place to judge him guilty? Or is it? If I wanted to go from my agnostic position back to my Church of Christ roots then I could under 1st Corinthians judge Joey and be safe. "Do you not realize we shall judge the angels (SAINTS IF YOU ARE READING THE KING JAMES VERSION)? Is it not then fair that we judge disputes between ourselves that rather going to an ungodly court? Did I just play into a conspiracy claim??? SHEET! All of this while being plastered on Everclear AGAIN! I need to make another youtube video. I understand that Shelby can not be tied with what my roommate said. I understand what it is like to be a single mother with a dead beat for an ex spouse. Good God knows I have dated a few single mothers and been a dead beat myself. YES I SAID IT HERE FOLKS! I WAS A DEAD BEAT FATHER! Thankfuly I got the chance to rectify that situation and do to this day have a relationship with my daughter. I am proud of my daughter. I love her. She became a beacon of truth to me and a stabilzing factor in my life. Yes I stil have rage agianst specific people, she showed me a light that no one (Not even my wife) showed me. I will say Lord help us all if Presley spawned with Joey.
Curtis, you made the statement "I understand what it is like to be a single mother with a dead beat for an ex spouse". That statement is erroneous, even when it gets light again.
actually its not Ginger. I have dated in the past divorced mothers who did not recieve a dime in child support. I saw them struggle to have a home and family life while being the sole support of income. But then again to the unknowing that would be and "erroneous" statement.
You said: "I understand what it is like to be a single mother with a dead beat for an ex spouse. Good God knows I have dated a few single mothers and been a dead beat myself." -That would be like me saying I know what its like to be black because I'm white. I correctly pointed out that you made an erroneous statement and now you come back and doubled down on stupid by saying: "actually its not Ginger. I have dated in the past divorced mothers who did not recieve a dime in child support. I saw them struggle to have a home and family life while being the sole support of income."
Now let me learn you something...you could say you know what its like to date a single mother, you could say you know what its like to watch a single mother at times, but you simply can't make the statement "I know what its like to be a single mother".
And since you decided to really put your neck out on the line, lets talk about little Curtis, shall we? You have to resort to making up fake friends to make it look like there is someone else in this entire universe that actaully backs you up on anything you say. You then go on to say that your made up friend is also your roomate. Probably not a good thing to say since everyone has already been questioning your sexuality. I can only assume this means you already ran off your latest wife?
Okay idiot. Bond restriction not able to be round kids...where the hell you been. No im a damn good mom so dont get it twisted dumbshit. I apparently missed out on it to....
The other case i speak of both in same reference. Ya'll can keep on talkn i already said keep my kids outa it bc there innocent ppl and i dont cross yout boundaries and im pretty sure ppl who do this blog shit faily have no lifes or even know what its like to have kids or prolly ( theres your word brandy) had them taken from them...you two r mentally disturbed.
First off without actually talking to me how do u know i dont see things joeys done...huh? How do u know i dont feel for the families like i do ours....really your oblivious to the friggin real world.
Also curtis you were apparently sad i heard saying i deleted u on fb..lol i didnt u were there after i heard that rumor....idk what happen to u dont really care to be honest....i didnt delete u btw i dont have time to delete ppl much less care whether ppl come n and out of my life....especially random ass ppl who add me....
Also you were a dead beat father once well once one always one....eye for an eye kinda person completely diff from joey so b4 u run ur stupid alcoholic mouth.....i leave the rest to ur imagination
@ Shelby: I have no intention of starting or continuing an argument with you, but before I start ignoring you:
1. The statement I took exception to was contradictory. The statement, in effect was, that you are a good mother for not violating Joey's bail conditions. Joey's status is/was completely irrelevant to your skills as a mother. Keeping your kids away from a potential abuser is expected of a good mother, but that's not what you said. Before you get mad again, I am not offering any opinion with regard to Joey's guilt or innocence. I don't know what happened and I don't care, but the potential that Joey is guilty is a fact.
2. Your angry rants, foul language and behavior in public (this includes the internet) leave doubt in any reasonable person's mind with regard to your parenting skills. Is your approach with Gingersnap and me the example you set for your kids when you want your way? If so, you are raising your kids to be angry foul mouth adults.
3. When you use foul language and name calling to get your point across, you've already lost your audience and the argument, you just have figured it out yet. Not only is this ineffective, it really makes you look like the idiot.
4. If you are going chew people out, don't cuss and it would be best to use your big girl words, 12th grade English, grammar and punctuation skills so that your target will fully understand everything that you say.
5. I did not bash you, I offered my opinion as to the way you are behaving. You made a public spectacle of yourself by acting bossy and angry. Had you asked Gingersnap to please take down the photos because you never intended for to them to be posted, I would have opined with regard to how polite you are. If you don't want people to think badly of you, don't act badly. Besides, threatening people the way you did never really works in the long term.
6. If you are going to act badly, don't read the blogs because somebody will call you out on your behavior.
7. I could post my name but it wouldn't do you any good, you still wouldn't know who I am. If you were to google my name you would be provided with information on a lawyer in Dallas and a doctor in California - I am neither. You can not find me in the phone book or on the internet.
Okay, noted. But why talk about me to begin with. Opening doors to defend my kids/ myself period. Im strong willed and well my mouth can get the best of me but I can back my words up to. Under no circumstance to begin with should I, my other family members should be brought into CRAP my brother gets himself into. We are all different and WE aren't Joey. I get he may have wrote about ya'll etc. However I did not, neither my family other then him. I have to be on defense for all ya'lls b.s. because I never once spoke of yall online or in public for ya'll to do it to me.
I don't even participate in half Joey's crap bc I have a life. I only mention if things out takin to ectreme
Stupid phone....extreme.....you realize the amount of crap hes goten himself in and talking about my kids in any manner having to do with him other then he is their uncle could get them taken from me...Did it cross your mind I work my ass off as a single mom bc there dad don't give a shit. DID IT OCCUR TO YOU that id give my life before any nut job took my kids. Or that im so different from Joey I'd prilly end up being your best friend. (Not saying I want to be before anyone takes it out of context)
AGAIN, I can write and use punctuation however Im not in front of a computer and the phone picks its own letter
^^^ If I engaged in an email first...Under what grounds would I have to press the Harrasment button. Exactly, I wouldn't. Do you think before you speak?
@ Shelby: Thank you for a more thoughtful and intelligent response. Now I have a better understanding of the statement you made about being a good mother, it did not occur to me that you were afraid of losing your kids. And, no I am not Curtis' roommate - I don't know whether to laugh or cry at that question.
I agree with you that your kids should be protected from all of this and not talked about. I was not talking about your kids, I was talking about your language, your behavior and the example you set for your kids. I don't recall talking about you at all, until your angry rants were posted. Then, you were fair game and I challenged your statement.
I am sorry that that your brother has caused you pain and I understand your anger. But, he is responsible for his actions and it is not your responsibility to defend him. Seems like it would be torture for you and I don't understand why you do it, but if you are going to read the blogs to make sure we have the facts, you can present the facts, disagree with someone or challenge statements without hostility. Whether you think a blog is the real world or not, how you conduct yourself anywhere in public is a reflection of you, not Joey.
Just in case it didn't occur to you, you are not the first single parent in the world and you won't be the last. It is tough to be mom and dad with sole responsibility for financial and emotional support. Again, I understand your anger. But being angry about it and taking it out on everybody else isn't going to help you or your kids. I've been there, done that and I'm 25 years down the road - you won't win any argument with me on the subject.
I take that back Curtis. I AM SORRY, people do change and do better for themselves. Sorry, part of being on defense to all ya'lls crap you say about me.
@ Selby: Now, is that the way a young lady, with children, should behave? What you think of your mother or daughter if they made such an offer. Besides that example we talked about for your kids, you better watch out that your alligator mouth doesn't over load your twitty bird fanny. That's exactly what got your brother in so much trouble.
Just a fighter:) My life with my kids/public internet stupid blogs are completely two separate things. Again, Im a damn good mom and you and no one else will twist it and make it look like im not.
Ah, no - your blog life and life with your kids are not two separate things. Your belief that it is separate shows your level of maturity and ineffectiveness as a mother, there's no need for me or anybody else to twist a thing.
You only have one shot at raising those kids to be productive members of society and the time you have is limited. At the rate your going, you are going to raise adults that end up in jail for fighting. Those kids feel the energy of every hostile thought and bad word you say or write. They might not be able to read or understand the words and you may think they are happily oblivious to every thing you are doing on line, but they are reading you. Kids are like dogs and horses - they all understand intent, it's an instinct God gives them to help them survive.
Think about it for the next few nights after the kids go to bed, ask yourself "What kind of energy did I send out today, what intentions of mine did my kids witness today and what did I teach my kids today about how to handle conflict and bad times?"
That's it, I'm done with you. I have no more time to spend on foul mouthed little girls that want to "whoops whose ass first". I think you are much more interested in defending your behavior than you are at improving as a parent. How sad for the next generation of Daubens.
Shelby, that was the best comment you've made. Take it to heart with yourself. You can be better. Cursing and threatening to fight people are not admirable qualities. You may not care about social status, but you should care about having a little class & presenting yourself in the best light possible. Joey has a long fight on his hands. He is lucky to have his family. You should remember the public is watching. We will be critical because Joey was more than just critical. Supporting him may get you some criticism, but it's your choice of words and actions that yield the biggest responses. While I think your mom may be wearing blinders, she's been pretty respectable and thoughtful with her comments during this time. Think of the way people speak when there are press conferences. Their words are carefully constructed. Think before you respond & leave the anger out of your typing. Public relations are important. They are a facet of life. You will be happier and treated more kindly if you heed my advise. (and that of nothingbettertodotoday) Also, it's the best thing you could do for Joey.
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ReplyDeleteNow an hour and a half into it and still no word on what happened.
ReplyDeleteAnd somehow Mommy must be happy, here is sister Shelby out making funny pictures in front of the courthouse that is about to send her son back to jail. At least Shelby understands that the Dauben faimly is just one big joke, so act accordingly.
ReplyDeleteI see she's donned her finest church clothes.
ReplyDeletebrannon what's your twitter feed? the regular one hasn't been used since 09 :/
ReplyDeleteHe warned that he was going to be a little sleepy as he doesn't fucntion well this early in the morning. Someone needs to wake him up and tell him what they did.
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ReplyDeletemy twitter feed is on the side with thegreatspecialed.wordpress.com website
ReplyDeleteSo Brannon, what all happned in there? How exactly did it go down and what was the evidence they used?
ReplyDeletekeep talking and posting about me my kids your previous post and all. I am contacting cyber crime ppl and i will get a restraining order if you all do not take my name off your stupid fake made up lie web sites. I am talking to a investigator right now. I will get a seize order as well.
ReplyDeleteI'm not posting about your kids. And I"m only posting about you from what you posted or stated publicly. If you would quit sticking your foot in your mouth about this in a public forum I would "prolly" leave you out of it, Daddy too.
ReplyDeleteOh noooo Shelby allowed her pics to be put up on the internet via Brannon and a twitter feed but how dare Ginger copy n paste. Yes, someone call da POLE-eece quick. A serious crime has been committed online. Its an awful thing to have someone post comments about you when you don't want them too.
ReplyDeleteooooh wait, hypocrite Daubens again. They can dish it out but well..... gee. I'm sure the police have nothing better to do right now Shelby. Go cry to mama will ya? LOL seriously, LOOK at what your freak-show brother has done to others online for years and you think you have some right to contact authorities? Because of permssion you already gave for these pics to be public? NO crime has been committed and NO ONE on here is chatting about your babies.
And in relation to the post about your kids, that came because someone posted on here claiming that Joey violated his bond by seeing his nieces and nephews and that I should run with that story. Joey and Brandy identified that person as Curtis, but whoever it was I posted that I disagree with that ruling and I have no problem with Joey seeing his nieces and nephews and would support him if he did. So that post wasn't about your kids it was about the possibility of Joey violating his bond, and for that matter I took up for Joey on that one.
ReplyDeleteemail me please.
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which he hasnt I AS A GOOD MOTHER WOULDNT EVEN CROSS THAT BAIL RESTRICTION. IDK WHO YOU ARE BUT PLEASE JUST EMAIL THE SHELBY.DAUBEN
ReplyDeletewhy?
ReplyDeleteI never even said he did, I just said that if he did I really dont have a problem with it. That was a BS technicality to his bond restrictions. There is certianly zero evidence that Joey would be any kind of a threat to them in any way, even if he if he is guilty of the navarro charges.
ReplyDeleteok, but why am I emailing you, you just told me to stop harrassing you now you want me to email you.
ReplyDeleteShelby you really should not have posted your email publicly. Careful Ginger, if she does get some harassing emails, she'll try to pin it on you. I've seen her go off like a rabid dog at some others a few months back.
ReplyDeleteShelby, its simple. Joey has hurt a lot of people. Your family seems to think that's just fine because its "Joey". Its not ok. You and daddy and mommy yapping online is what I call fair game. If you're going to talk, I will be posting whatever IS public domain. If you want to go behind closed doors then shut down your facebook accounts really tight and stop discussing things in open forums. When you do, you lose all rights to privacy and nothing is illegal. Its opinions. Stop talking and no one will be bringing attention on you. Get it?
This is actually just what Presley was doing as well, they post all kinds of things on the internet including pics but when someone copies and paste their own words they go crazy and scream at me to take them down. Actually, poor Shelby was just having to fill in for Presley as she was MIA on Joey's big day.
ReplyDeleteDon't know how I missed all this Shelby fun. Bossy little fart, ain't she. She used her mamma voice on you, Gingersnap. E-mail me right now! Take those posts down right now! Quit laughing at me right now!
ReplyDeleteI hope you didn't email her. Maybe she'll come back and promise to spank you...........
Actually, I thought she kinda sounded like the Incredible Hulk. "SHELBY ANGRY. EMAIL THE SHELBY DAUBEN."
ReplyDeleteDo you suppose she talks to her kids that way? "AS A GOOD MOTHER WOULDNT EVEN CROSS THAT BAIL RESTRICTION". How does "CROSS(ing) THAT BAIL RESTRICTION" relate to being a good mother? It's like she's mixing metaphors. Was she protecting the kids or Joey?
ReplyDeleteI thought the same thing about her comment. The two parts had no relation to each other.
ReplyDeleteIn all fairness Ginger you did have a right to copy and paste. But on the flip side going after Joey's sister was not cool.
ReplyDeleteYes I have had my isseus with Joey but I have never attacked Shelby. Have I warned her about Joey seeing her kids even before he was released? YES. Did my roommate pick up on that and then post on your blog? Yes.
Was it me trying to get Joey thrown back in jail? NO! The only reason I post on their (Editors) blog is because I want the world to see what Joey has become since his time in lockup.
Yes the (Editor) is still my roommate and will be for years to come. I served with them and enjoyed my time aboard the "Ike". CVN-69 was home. Now Dallas County Mo. is home. Yes I drive 80% of my time but I do get to post from time to time on the road. Mostly I wait for down time before I post anything.
I will say Shelby is having issues and blaiming you for others comments she does not like. I know she would like the attacks on Joey to stop but she does not and can not see the lies he has told since departing the Ellis County Press.
I will say this might be some BS lie against Joey (the Navarro County charges).Is it is not our place to judge him guilty? Or is it? If I wanted to go from my agnostic position back to my Church of Christ roots then I could under 1st Corinthians judge Joey and be safe. "Do you not realize we shall judge the angels (SAINTS IF YOU ARE READING THE KING JAMES VERSION)?
Is it not then fair that we judge disputes between ourselves that rather going to an ungodly court?
Did I just play into a conspiracy claim??? SHEET! All of this while being plastered on Everclear AGAIN! I need to make another youtube video.
I understand that Shelby can not be tied with what my roommate said. I understand what it is like to be a single mother with a dead beat for an ex spouse. Good God knows I have dated a few single mothers and been a dead beat myself. YES I SAID IT HERE FOLKS! I WAS A DEAD BEAT FATHER! Thankfuly I got the chance to rectify that situation and do to this day have a relationship with my daughter.
I am proud of my daughter. I love her. She became a beacon of truth to me and a stabilzing factor in my life. Yes I stil have rage agianst specific people, she showed me a light that no one (Not even my wife) showed me.
I will say Lord help us all if Presley spawned with Joey.
Curtis, you made the statement "I understand what it is like to be a single mother with a dead beat for an ex spouse". That statement is erroneous, even when it gets light again.
ReplyDeleteactually its not Ginger. I have dated in the past divorced mothers who did not recieve a dime in child support. I saw them struggle to have a home and family life while being the sole support of income.
ReplyDeleteBut then again to the unknowing that would be and "erroneous" statement.
Ok Curtis, lets look at the tape, shall we?
ReplyDeleteYou said: "I understand what it is like to be a single mother with a dead beat for an ex spouse. Good God knows I have dated a few single mothers and been a dead beat myself."
-That would be like me saying I know what its like to be black because I'm white. I correctly pointed out that you made an erroneous statement and now you come back and doubled down on stupid by saying:
"actually its not Ginger. I have dated in the past divorced mothers who did not recieve a dime in child support. I saw them struggle to have a home and family life while being the sole support of income."
Now let me learn you something...you could say you know what its like to date a single mother, you could say you know what its like to watch a single mother at times, but you simply can't make the statement "I know what its like to be a single mother".
And since you decided to really put your neck out on the line, lets talk about little Curtis, shall we? You have to resort to making up fake friends to make it look like there is someone else in this entire universe that actaully backs you up on anything you say. You then go on to say that your made up friend is also your roomate. Probably not a good thing to say since everyone has already been questioning your sexuality. I can only assume this means you already ran off your latest wife?
Okay idiot. Bond restriction not able to be round kids...where the hell you been. No im a damn good mom so dont get it twisted dumbshit. I apparently missed out on it to....
ReplyDeleteBtw -Found it!!
The other case i speak of both in same reference. Ya'll can keep on talkn i already said keep my kids outa it bc there innocent ppl and i dont cross yout boundaries and im pretty sure ppl who do this blog shit faily have no lifes or even know what its like to have kids or prolly ( theres your word brandy) had them taken from them...you two r mentally disturbed.
ReplyDelete^^^^^^apparently you really have nothing better to do today then bash someone who dont even know who you are...god looks down on judgemental fucks...
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ReplyDeleteFirst off without actually talking to me how do u know i dont see things joeys done...huh? How do u know i dont feel for the families like i do ours....really your oblivious to the friggin real world.
ReplyDeleteAlso curtis you were apparently sad i heard saying i deleted u on fb..lol i didnt u were there after i heard that rumor....idk what happen to u dont really care to be honest....i didnt delete u btw i dont have time to delete ppl much less care whether ppl come n and out of my life....especially random ass ppl who add me....
ReplyDeleteAlso you were a dead beat father once well once one always one....eye for an eye kinda person completely diff from joey so b4 u run ur stupid alcoholic mouth.....i leave the rest to ur imagination
ReplyDeleteI dont go to church
ReplyDelete@ Shelby: I have no intention of starting or continuing an argument with you, but before I start ignoring you:
ReplyDelete1. The statement I took exception to was contradictory. The statement, in effect was, that you are a good mother for not violating Joey's bail conditions. Joey's status is/was completely irrelevant to your skills as a mother. Keeping your kids away from a potential abuser is expected of a good mother, but that's not what you said. Before you get mad again, I am not offering any opinion with regard to Joey's guilt or innocence. I don't know what happened and I don't care, but the potential that Joey is guilty is a fact.
2. Your angry rants, foul language and behavior in public (this includes the internet) leave doubt in any reasonable person's mind with regard to your parenting skills. Is your approach with Gingersnap and me the example you set for your kids when you want your way? If so, you are raising your kids to be angry foul mouth adults.
3. When you use foul language and name calling to get your point across, you've already lost your audience and the argument, you just have figured it out yet. Not only is this ineffective, it really makes you look like the idiot.
4. If you are going chew people out, don't cuss and it would be best to use your big girl words, 12th grade English, grammar and punctuation skills so that your target will fully understand everything that you say.
5. I did not bash you, I offered my opinion as to the way you are behaving. You made a public spectacle of yourself by acting bossy and angry. Had you asked Gingersnap to please take down the photos because you never intended for to them to be posted, I would have opined with regard to how polite you are. If you don't want people to think badly of you, don't act badly. Besides, threatening people the way you did never really works in the long term.
6. If you are going to act badly, don't read the blogs because somebody will call you out on your behavior.
7. I could post my name but it wouldn't do you any good, you still wouldn't know who I am. If you were to google my name you would be provided with information on a lawyer in Dallas and a doctor in California - I am neither. You can not find me in the phone book or on the internet.
Okay, noted. But why talk about me to begin with. Opening doors to defend my kids/ myself period. Im strong willed and well my mouth can get the best of me but I can back my words up to. Under no circumstance to begin with should I, my other family members should be brought into CRAP my brother gets himself into. We are all different and WE aren't Joey. I get
ReplyDeletehe may have wrote about ya'll etc. However I did not, neither my family
other then him.
I have to be on defense for all ya'lls b.s. because I never once spoke of yall online or in public for ya'll to do it to me.
I don't even participate in half Joey's crap bc I have a life. I only mention if things out takin to ectreme
Stupid phone....extreme.....you realize the amount of crap hes goten himself in and talking about my kids in any manner having to do with him other then he is their uncle could get them taken from me...Did it cross your mind I work my ass off as a single mom bc there dad don't give a shit. DID IT OCCUR TO YOU that id give my life before any nut job took my kids. Or that im so different from Joey I'd prilly end up being your best friend. (Not saying I want to be before anyone takes it out of context)
ReplyDeleteAGAIN, I can write and use punctuation however Im not in front of a computer and the phone picks its own letter
I know when and where and how to conduct myself professionally. This is a blog not the real world.
ReplyDeleteNothingbettertodotoday- You curtis' roomate? There is to many to keep up with.
ReplyDelete^^^ If I engaged in an email first...Under what grounds would I have to press the Harrasment button. Exactly, I wouldn't. Do you think before you speak?
ReplyDeleteIf that email is public idc. I don't use it. It's an alternate.
ReplyDelete^^^^ this yappy is what I am talking bout.
ReplyDelete@ Shelby: Thank you for a more thoughtful and intelligent response. Now I have a better understanding of the statement you made about being a good mother, it did not occur to me that you were afraid of losing your kids. And, no I am not Curtis' roommate - I don't know whether to laugh or cry at that question.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you that your kids should be protected from all of this and not talked about. I was not talking about your kids, I was talking about your language, your behavior and the example you set for your kids. I don't recall talking about you at all, until your angry rants were posted. Then, you were fair game and I challenged your statement.
I am sorry that that your brother has caused you pain and I understand your anger. But, he is responsible for his actions and it is not your responsibility to defend him. Seems like it would be torture for you and I don't understand why you do it, but if you are going to read the blogs to make sure we have the facts, you can present the facts, disagree with someone or challenge statements without hostility. Whether you think a blog is the real world or not, how you conduct yourself anywhere in public is a reflection of you, not Joey.
Just in case it didn't occur to you, you are not the first single parent in the world and you won't be the last. It is tough to be mom and dad with sole responsibility for financial and emotional support. Again, I understand your anger. But being angry about it and taking it out on everybody else isn't going to help you or your kids. I've been there, done that and I'm 25 years down the road - you won't win any argument with me on the subject.
LoL Ive been called HULK before....you can meet me and see who whoops whose ass first:)
ReplyDeleteI take that back Curtis. I AM SORRY, people do change and do better for themselves. Sorry, part of being on defense to all ya'lls crap you say about me.
ReplyDeletePeople can redeem themselves...
@ Selby: Now, is that the way a young lady, with children, should behave? What you think of your mother or daughter if they made such an offer. Besides that example we talked about for your kids, you better watch out that your alligator mouth doesn't over load your twitty bird fanny. That's exactly what got your brother in so much trouble.
ReplyDeleteJust a fighter:) My life with my kids/public internet stupid blogs are completely two separate things. Again, Im a damn good mom and you and no one else will twist it and make it look like im not.
ReplyDeleteI dont have a daughter
ReplyDeleteAh, no - your blog life and life with your kids are not two separate things. Your belief that it is separate shows your level of maturity and ineffectiveness as a mother, there's no need for me or anybody else to twist a thing.
ReplyDeleteYou only have one shot at raising those kids to be productive members of society and the time you have is limited. At the rate your going, you are going to raise adults that end up in jail for fighting. Those kids feel the energy of every hostile thought and bad word you say or write. They might not be able to read or understand the words and you may think they are happily oblivious to every thing you are doing on line, but they are reading you. Kids are like dogs and horses - they all understand intent, it's an instinct God gives them to help them survive.
Think about it for the next few nights after the kids go to bed, ask yourself "What kind of energy did I send out today, what intentions of mine did my kids witness today and what did I teach my kids today about how to handle conflict and bad times?"
That's it, I'm done with you. I have no more time to spend on foul mouthed little girls that want to "whoops whose ass first". I think you are much more interested in defending your behavior than you are at improving as a parent. How sad for the next generation of Daubens.
Shelby, that was the best comment you've made. Take it to heart with yourself. You can be better. Cursing and threatening to fight people are not admirable qualities. You may not care about social status, but you should care about having a little class & presenting yourself in the best light possible. Joey has a long fight on his hands. He is lucky to have his family. You should remember the public is watching. We will be critical because Joey was more than just critical. Supporting him may get you some criticism, but it's your choice of words and actions that yield the biggest responses. While I think your mom may be wearing blinders, she's been pretty respectable and thoughtful with her comments during this time. Think of the way people speak when there are press conferences. Their words are carefully constructed. Think before you respond & leave the anger out of your typing. Public relations are important. They are a facet of life. You will be happier and treated more kindly if you heed my advise. (and that of nothingbettertodotoday) Also, it's the best thing you could do for Joey.
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