Just what kind of sick world is Conne and Presley living in as they torment Presley's half sister even as the poor girl tries to shower? This is iBedwell's letter to Abigal Roseman, Presley's half sister's court appointed attorney. Besides the shower disclosure, the entire statement is ripe with arrogance and condescension that only Joey could rival. Back to the shower thing though, since we know iBedwell records everything, I think its reasonable to assume she might have tried to record this as well. Just how reprobate are these people and how much longer can society afford to let them be free as they destory the lives of children?
Abigail Roseman,
I am writing you this letter as a FIRSTHAND witness to Minor Child’s disclosures that occurred while she was in the care of Presley Renae Crowe her older sister and while in my presence. Minor Child has disclosed sexual abuse by her so called father Shane Crowe to Presley multiple times and he has also raped Presley, whom has even been on Dr Phil to expose what you all are doing to Minor Child while knowing he has raped both of them. I have on tape Minor Child disclosing that she wants to commit suicide which she stated a few times, all due to her father's molestation of her. I have firsthand witnessed Minor Child’s Post Traumatic Stress Disorder episodes being afraid to even want to get naked and take a shower because of what he has done to her. I have firsthand witnessed her fear of him, fear of the dark, and many other symptoms and behaviors associated with sexual abuse victims. Any educated person in the sexual abuse field knows molesters threaten their victims in order to keep the sexual abuse a secret, these threats are VERY prevalent in Minor Child’s behavior and disclosures. You, as her GAL, need to be concerned for her safety and protect her from this outrageous abuse perpetrated by Shane Crowe. After these disclosures were made to Presley and I, we went to the Jackson Police Department to report the sexual abuse and suicide disclosures. There should be an open case against Shane at this present time. I also witnessed the evidence that Presley has of Shane placing her information on pornography sites. Shane Crowe does not stop personally harassing me either which I too reported to the police and forwarded his nonstop emails.
In case you are unaware of who I am and what I do in my spare time, I am exposing these types of crimes perpetrated upon children by child molesters that are then further perpetrated by the court systems illegally violating due process and code 3027.5 punishing mothers for trying to protect their children from abuse. I have spoken with two National media outlets, Dateline and Fox 40, and I am sitting down again with a Hollywood Movie Producer this Friday regarding cases such as this one and I am going to further expose the abuse being done to this child by Shane Crowe along with the further perpetrations being allowed by such individuals as yourself who are responsible for protecting children because you absolutely refuse to protect her. You seem to be biased to even listen to witnesses and were so extremely rude to me when I tried to discuss these facts with you today. Just to inform you, The United States Senate and United States House of Representatives out of Washington DC are currently following the networking I do, which I too can provide proof of. A Senator has also sent a demand to the United States Attorney General demanding an investigation into these crimes. I am sure Presley is willing to go on National Television again to state the disclosures of the abuse done to both her and her sister and present the evidence she has in order to save Minor Child from this blatant corruption and child trafficking to pedophile Shane Crowe.
You should actually take the time to talk with witnesses to protect Minor Child, allow Susan to keep her and take her to counselling today and every day. You need to keep her out of the child molesters hands so he is not able to brainwash her and threaten her like all child molesters do. THIS CHILD HAS THREATENED SUICIDE BECAUSE OF HIM! SHE IS TRAUMATIZED BY HIM. YOU NEED TO PROTECT HER.
I would suggest if you are uneducated about child molesters tactics that Shane Crowe time and time displays maybe you should read a few books called "Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft and "Understanding Child Molesters" by Eric Leburg. Molesters constantly flip their own behavior on their victims mothers as Shane Crowe constantly does to Susan and uses the system as a tool to further abuse them both.
I would suggest that you protect your client and keep her out of that pedophile Shane Crowe's house today. You are a mandated reporter and I am keeping this email as a record that you have been told again by another firsthand witness to Minor Child’s abuse disclosures and behaviors, as I am completely aware that you repetitively ignore Presley's disclosures of Shane's rape of her and Minor Child.
If you need to further contact me, please do.
Did Bedwell think Dauben was some "national media" and that is why she contacted him. He must have used the "I'm a media empire, just look at my Facebook pages" to woo her. Delusional attracts delusional. He finds someone to use to cover his tracks in his case and she finds someone that desires attention like her and happens to be pretty good at Photoshop. (I wonder if the Texas Penal System has a graphic design program, he'd be a perfect fit.) I read where she claimed that a senator had contacted her about her fight for her child but in the photo she posted the subject matter appeared to address some African American issue, not a Connie Bedwell issue.
ReplyDeleteShe was defending Dauben constantly but seems to have backed off on that. All of these parent's that lose custody become curbside lawyers and "experts". They'll blindly jump the bandwagon of anyone to keep their own delusion going, just like this woman. Bedwell should spend time on her own situation instead of trying to get involved in others. I noticed in the brief time I have read her posts on her pages, she always turns the attention to herself. The only attention she brings to herself or these cases appears to be of the negative kind. Wonder if the father sent her a thank you card for all her help to his case?
It would be interesting to see what kind of "movie" she supposedly had a meeting with a producer about? The movie title was probably one of the topics they discussed. I agree with the producer, "Connie Does NoCal" has a certain ring to it.
LOL - Cuckoo’s r us. Another term could be Munchausen’s r us. Or, border line personality r us. Funny how all of the members of this group have posted photos of their kids with similar “evidence” indicating abuse. The indicators are probably in the books mentioned. Another similarity in these cases is that up until the abuse accusations and investigations, the dads only had visitation rights, so the moms had custodial custody.
ReplyDeleteI don’t get Fox 40, but I’m a faithful watcher of Dateline – haven’t seen a piece or promo re: this group yet. That movie thing might just backfire – maybe the real story is about girls that do stupid stuff and lose custody and visitation of their kids.
Get a grip Presley – none of this stuff is working for anybody in the group. Why do you think it would work for you?
In all seriousness, these behaviors can be compared to a checklist and would more than likely have a high percentage of hits for borderline personality.
ReplyDeleteSymptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder - American Psychiatric Association DSM-IV
Personality disorders are diagnosed based on signs and symptoms and a thorough psychological evaluation. To be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, someone must meet criteria spelled out in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). The DSM criteria note that people with BPD have a pattern of unstable relationships, self-image and mood, as well as impulsive behavior. These typically begin in early adulthood. This manual is published by the American Psychiatric Association and is used by mental health professionals to diagnose mental conditions and by insurance companies to reimburse for treatment.
Borderline Personality Disorder is a pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image, and affects, and marked impulsivity beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
1. frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5
2. a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
3. identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
4. impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.
5. recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior
6. affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).
7. chronic feelings of emptiness
8. inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights)
9. transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms
Connie's (self-promotion deceiving version to appear as if she has connections) compared to the real version.
ReplyDeleteConnie: I've spoken with National TV like Fox and Dateline.
Reality: I emailed them and they contacted me back but I've never been on TV ever. Never. Not once. Ever. Did I say I've never been on TV?
Oh wait, been on Youtube. When my friend filmed me being interviewed by a Sacramento TV station and they declined to air my story so I put it on youtube. So actually if Youtube is TV, I've been on TV. *giggle* *giggle*
High percentage? Looks like 100%
ReplyDeleteShould have said "...or 100%". 9 out of 9
ReplyDeleteObviously none of you have been through the trauma of having your child come to you with sexual abuse allegations and seen the symptoms and the way the courts refuse to protect them. Often even with physical evidence, doctors are kept from testifying, evidence kept off the record, etc. It goes way beyond frustrating for a protective parent. Most mothers who have gone through this, connect with one another, read up on the subject, and try to speak out in an effort to protect their children. You cannot imagine the trauma of your child screaming in terror as you are forced to turn them over to someone you KNOW is harming them, because your own government ordered you to or face jail. Nightmares are common, and the fear of being touched as well (similar to an animal that has been beaten). The statement about not wanting to be naked is not uncommon either. Have any of you for one instant considered that maybe this child actually had been abused and that YOU are assisting in that abuse by making fun of her mother's efforts to protect her?
ReplyDeleteYou missed the point, the child is reluctant to shower naked in front of Connie a person who has no relation to her whatsoever. Why is the child having to shower in front of strangers?
ReplyDeleteI've read a lot online about this, as much as I could find.
ReplyDeleteThe mother has no evidence of abuse, none. SART exams came back negative, no abuse by experts who do see abused children on a daily basis and know exactly what to look for. Police investigated. Polygraph was done by FBI on Shane I read some where and showed no deception. He passed it.
The child is what? 7,8 or 9, not disclosing any abuse past or present. I mean that's an assumption because if she was, Presley would have had Connie put up the audio or video.
She has a counselor and a lawyer the mother is keeping from her, which is seriously scary to withhold important adults from the child that could prove abuse. Very dangerous game the mother is playing. The mother's own lawyer said in a court of law this mother is a liar and a con with zero proof of abuse, only her own ridiculous stupidity and mental health issues.
Please tell Presley I am waiting on the court documentation regarding her statements to Joey about some semen found in this child's diaper YET the court still allowed Shane custody? Please, come on. You going to make such grandiose allegations online you better damn well prove its the truth. My repeated requests are ignored. I assume because there is no such evidence made to the courts or evidence found by doctors of this mysterious semen. Maybe the mother took her husbands sperm and put it there. Who knows what she's capable of?
Like Ginger asked. Why is this 7 or 8 yr old child being forced to shower naked in front of people she hardly knows? That sounds very abusive and sick.
I think it's appearing more and more like a case of a mother who does have a lot of serious mental and emotional issues. Like the poster above (borderline personality). It happens, we read about similar cases often. Women (and men) use and abuse court systems for revenge and to gain the upper hand in child custody cases so they make false abuse allegations. That is real, there are liars.
Trust me, I feel deeply for abused children. Its a violent sick world we live in. I would change my position in a heartbeat if I saw a clear cut case of abuse. I don't see anything. Nothing.
I think the mother has a lot of issues, her child being a product of rape or molestation isn't one of them.
I think this "protective mother" group is damaging the cases for kids that really are abused. Like Yappy, I've read a lot about these cases. I wanted to give the mothers' the benefit of doubt. But the only evidence of abuse is from the mothers' that continue attempts to alienate the kids from the fathers, subject the kids to unnecesssary exams and post horrible things all over the internet that will live forever.
ReplyDeleteGinger has a great point; why was this child asked to shower in front of other people? You don't see that request as abusive? Some kids have a strong sense of modesty. Me for one, I wasn't abused but I flunked PE classes in Jr high school simply because I refused to get naked and shower in front of other people.
With regard to sceaming during exchanges, it's not unusual for a child to become upset when they have to leave the parent with visitation rights whether or not there is any abuse. This is because the non-custodial parent devotes all the visitation time to making sure the kid stays happy. The kid gets undivided attention, there's usually no discipline, so no disagreement - what kid wants to leave that situation? Kids can also read their parents' emotions. If these mothers are getting upset when it's time for the kid to go home, the kid will act out that emotion. And what are the mothers' saying to the kids during visitation? Based on what I've seen on-line, I'd bet my next pay check whatever is said is not comforting and not in the kids' best interest.
One thing that seems to be missing in these cases is acting out sexually. I'm not talking about the normal figuring out your body parts curiosity. A large percentage of abuse cases come to light when the parents discover the abused child is acting out with other children. You'd think there'd be at least one of these cases in this group. But no - these accusations are based on red marks on the neck and thighs and highly subjective comments made by the mothers. All of them? Really? Looks like pack/herd/mob mentality to me.
Can I ask the "None Yours" Protective parent something?
ReplyDeleteWhat's the allure about Connie? I don't get it never will.
She's never achieved anything. No media has ever actually aired or written anything but an article from the Auburn Journal long long ago where Connie admits authorities proved she coached her kid.
All her great advice has helped land mothers in jail or mothers lose custody of their kid. I can name 5 mothers who took Connies "advice". ALL of them / their cases with their kids were brutally damaged.
So whats the draw? I don't get it.
Its like going to a homeless Realtor and getting him to help me with rental property investments. Or a bankrupted stock broker for financial advice.
Connie is about the worst example a mother could ever follow but heck all the power to you ladies. Eventually you'll figure it out yourselves when you have all that extra time on your hands without your kids.
Oh. Good. Lord. Presley. Can't you understand there ARE LAWS in this country you do need to obey? I have no doubt you will be behind bars soon girl. Get a grip and get help.
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52 minutes ago near Cameron Park, CA ·
Court did not go well today at all. A judge who was disqualified and no longer able to hear our case, refused to follow the laws and the rules of the court. Sue had no due process rights today in court. Judge Shockley made that clear. She refused to read any of the statement filed in court by Sue. She read the fabricated declaration that Abigail says was written by Minor Child, which is an outright lie. And we have proof. Shane never served Sue with any of his requests of the court. Shockley granted whatever his requests were so we have no idea when or if we get to see Minor Child. The judge left immediately and Sue pleaded with the bailiff and the court reporter that it was an illegal order. I snapped and got up and started yelling that they need to protect my sister and arrest Shane Crowe. He raped me & is raping my sister. One of the four bailiffs that was in the courtroom came up to me and started yelling in my face to get out. I told him not until they protect my sister. I kept yelling over him, because everything about the hearing was ILLEGAL and I'm so sick and tired of being ignored and silenced while my sister is being raped. The bailiff that yelled in my face and another bailiff came and grabbed both arms and put them behind my back and forcibly took me to a back room on the other side of the courthouse. I yelled the entire time in the hallways saying they are protecting a child rapist and put my baby sister with the rapist! They put me in the back room up against the wall. One bailiff told me that I was going to be arrested for disruption in the courtroom, resisting arrest, and attempted assault. at this point I was still up against the wall being handcuffed. I was asked if I would cooperate and I said yes but you have to protect my sister. They handcuffed me and put me in a chair against the wall. A bailiff who was not in the courtroom at the time came to talk to me, and suddenly there were four bailiffs in the room surrounding me. He asked one of the officers who forced me out of the courtroom what happened. He said I began yelling and cussing and wouldn't listen to them and then that I attempted to hit him & the other officer. He lied out his ass. I attempted to hit NO ONE. I told the officer he was lying and they ignored me. Not once did he take down my side of the story. He refused to listen to what I had to say. All he did was say that he decided not to arrest me and book me in jail but that this was a warning, and if it happened again I would be going to jail and charged on 3counts. I'm not sure of this is normal, but I did have red marks and a scrape on my wrists from the handcuffs. I do not regret what I have done, and if I have to spend 100 years in jail for doing the right thing, I will.
We were told that Shane's requests were granted, we do not know if that is supervised visits or no visitation as neither Shane nor the courts served us with their requests or orders. Please continue to pray and spread Skye's story.
So let me get this straight? You cry and pout because you allege judges are not following the law but you and Connie and Susan are free to behave like neanderthals and nut jobs?
ReplyDeleteYou're lucky you got off for now.
GINGER please EDIT the child's name (again). very sorry about that (again).
Sorry this is too funny (and sadly pathetic) not to post. Connie's reply to Presley's post.
ReplyDeleteMinor Child Connie Bedwell It's okay Pres lightning is going to fry them all in court.
27 minutes ago via mobile
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Its ok Presley. You didn't have to act so disrespectful in a court of law. Yahweh was late today with the lightning, next time hon.
Here is the really telling part: "I’m so sick and tired of being ignored and silenced"
ReplyDeleteThats exactly it, its all about Presley and her desire to be right and be heard, and her half sister is suffering as a result. Her and Joey can play the game "who's more evil" and it would last long into the night as I'm not sure there would be a winner.
Are Joey and Presley living in Waxahachie? I'm wondering if Yahweh is taking aim where he should with the lightening thing. Five structures were hit by lightening at the same time last night in Waxahachie.
ReplyDeleteI guess this is how Connie and Presley thinks it works:
ReplyDeletehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZGyFm6zZeU
@Ginger: LOL, as always, you are spot on.
ReplyDelete@Presley: This clip and Connie's belief in Yahweh's directed lightening strikes are FANTASY. Those guys with badges and guns that threatened to throw you in the jail for acting up, NOT fantasy. BTW: if they feel the need to handcuff you to control your temper/actions, they aren't going to care if marks are left on your wrists, that IS normal.
A local abuse case came to my attention yesterday, sadly, a case in point. Mom and dad divorced, 2 kids, mom has custody. Dad remarried, new wife has custody of her kids from another relationship. Kids go to dad's house for summer visit, one of the kids is caught acting out sexually with a step-sibling. The dad calls police, the visiting kid is examined by experts. No physical signs of abuse but experts determined the kid has been molested by a teenage babysitter hired by custodial mom. Dad refused to return kids to mom, went to judge that heard divorce case to request an emergency order for custody.
ReplyDeleteWell... Whatever. Who knows what the truth really is. Fact is, somebody abuses a child of mine sexually and I know it, the last thing they hear is a pop to the back of the head. Guess it just doesn't matter past that.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, I think that this Connie could very well just be a desperate mom and would jump on any bandwagon to be with her child.
@dood: google Connie, there's pages and pages of stuff out there for you to get a grip on the truth. Fact is, the only evidence of abuse is what she's doing to the kid. She had custody of her little girl and lost it because of her actions. She's not jumping on the Presley bandwagon - she's driving the damn thing. And, it's not helping - it's just spreading the abuse to other kids.
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